Anger as Bad Relation to One's Lacking Side - (5745)

We have to know how to relate to the things that we do that work out and to the things that we do that don't work out.

We get angry with ourselves for doing or saying things that don't work out. That's one thing, now, when what we said or did that didn't work out is brought to our attention our emotion amplifies. Basically due to frustration.

When we don't know how to deal within ourselves in relation to the things that we did that didn't work out, we get angry going outside of ourselves directing our frustration at the person bringing our shortcomings to our attention.

If we can accept our shortcomings, not feel less or humiliated abut them, be patient with ourselves, apologise, look to understand where things didn't align, we are not going to get angry with ourselves and not get frutrated at the person bringing what didn't work out to our attention.  

In this case anger is showing us that we have not made that area of our life consciousness yet. This area is the area where we make what is commonly called a mistake, misjudgement, a poor decision, etc. etc.

Anger is like pain in the body. When it appears it is telling us that there is something that needs to be made conscious.

End (5745).