The way to get free from relativity, is to go to something that is absolute.
This situation happens so often, we are given less than another person and immediately we feel hurt. We feel hurt usually because we feel we deserve more. Or we have some sense of order or of right or wrong that says that receiving less is wrong.
At the bottom of it all, these feelings were triggered because of relativity. Because in comparison we received less. If we received more we would be happy right?
So it is a question of transcending relativity. Transcending the the relative less. I say relative less because compared to someone else we received more but less to another person.
To get out of feeling hurt because of receiving less is what we have to do. (By the way, it is always about receiving.) We must put our thinking or consciousness or focus or attention outside of the less and see the greater picture where many other factors contribute and are at work such as the past and the future and also most importantly, go to something Absolute which is always inside of ourselves.
Give the more of what what we received less of is the key. If we received less love give more love to our inner Being. Love more our inner Being and be more with our inner Being in that moment. If it was attention - give more attention to our inner Being. If it was praise or validation that we didn't receive then give more praise to our inner Being and validation - feeling that our Inner Being is the cause of our life.
As soon as we give to inside, our inside answers back. If we give the more to our interior it will answer with the more that will fill the void of the less in us.
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