Some of those egos are: self-compassion, self-love and self-importance.
My advice is not accept anything from those egos. Not their fear nor their disappointment nor their sadness. Certainly not their pain!
With the remembering of the Being within us and a bit of love for that Being we can stop those egos from going further.
If we have made a mistake. Ok fine, let's rectify it and carry onwards. Work hard and makes things better than before.
We fail, ok we fail, it didn't work, a disaster, whatever the outcome no more accepting the pain. It goes against our inner Being, ourselves and does not make anything better.