Three Factors
Of the three factors, the first is for us, the second is for
the Being and the third is for humanity (sorry, I would just like to here, reacquaint
with the three factors, they are: first-death, second-birth and third-sacrifice).
First Factor
By working in mystical death we benefit ourselves, because
we remove the causes of pain that directly affects us. So we benefit ourselves
and also our Being as we lighten his and our karmic debt and allow Him freer
communication and expression in us (we also feel more happiness as the Being is
made of the nature of happiness). However, it is basically us that reap the
benefits of the death of our egos, the Being is up there in the internal worlds
happy.
Third Factor
When we make sacrifices of our time, energy and way of life
to help humanity we are benefitting and giving to humanity. So the third factor
is primarily for humanity, however by the law of cause and effect it also
benefits us as we acquire the merits to receive help because we have helped
others.
Second Factor
When we work in the Alchemy, that is with the transmutation
of the sexual energy we are working for the Being, less for ourselves and less
for humanity, but more for the Being.
Alchemical Partner
The Alchemical partner, preferably husband or wife is the
one that is instrumental in the Alchemical work, and as the Alchemical work is
not really for us, but belongs to the Being even though we have to do it, our
Alchemical partner is also then for the Being.
Our Alchemical partner is the one given to us by the Divine
Law in accordance with the will and needs and our Being and that of the Being
of our Alchemical partner.
Already Together
If you are already together then we the best thing is to
realise this on a deeper level and use it to change the way you see, think,
feel and act towards you r Alchemical partner. See that it he or she is for the
work of your Beings and is a gift or grace in your life to be able to work for
your Being.
There may be too the cases where the Alchemical partner is
not an Alchemical partner, and the relationship does not run smoothly (over a
long time) and the Alchemical work does not move along (over a long time) very
well at all, then perhaps that partner is not really for your Being and not
appropriate for the Alchemical work but is more appropriate for the relationship
run in the setting of normal life. Who knows, only really the people involved in
the relationship can fully determine that.
Single
If you are single then wait for the law and the Being to
move things in your life to find the person that will work with you Alchemically
speaking. You don’t have to look very hard, the Being will bring the person.
But of course you have to like the person and also love the person but it has
to be ordained by your internal Being.
Conclusion
The conclusion here is that we need to change our way of
thinking when it comes to this matter of the Alchemical partner. We need to see
the Alchemical partner more in the light of the Being and its work, and not
from the human personality point of view and not from only our perspective because
who you know when we act without regard to our Being, we can and often do get
it wrong.
End.