Introduction
We have envy to relate to our progress in all of our
endeavours. Envy has a few different functions within our psychology and this
is one of them. It is concerned with our progress.
Envy Adapts
Envy adapts to what we value the most. At one stage of our
life we may envy those who bring home such and such a salary or have this and
that possession, and later on when we enter the spiritual studies we may envy
those who have obtained this and that or at this point on the path etc.
Anyway if in the past we have created the ego of envy it
will constantly look for things to be envious about. It won’t stop, it will
mechanically compare and project the thoughts and feeling so envy. Envy usually
acts with ill-will towards others and harbours a negative attitude towards those
we envy.
A Solution
We tend to feel envy when we are not doing very well, when
we are not progressing or seemingly not progressing. It is most of the time our
fault why we are not progressing. Usually envy sees it as the fault of others
as to why we are not progressing.
If we take responsibility for why we are not progressing we
can change envy around and make it diminish.
Usually also we feel lots of envy when it seems as though
others are progressing with some of the help of our efforts and we are not
getting anywhere but spending money and using our time to help them. But really
their progress is due to their efforts and their own Being. We have little to
do with it.
Conclusion
I think the solution is to then get to work, start working
seriously on ourselves and take responsibility for our progress or lack of progress
and see that the progress of others does not have much really to do with us.
Our progress is our job and business and that we have to look at and take care
of. When we start taking care of it in a honest and decent way putting in a
sincere effort we feel much less envy.
End (588).
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