Avoiding People Notes - (5668)

If one day we decide to avoid no one during our day, we will find out how much avoid people.

We avoid people many times during a given day. We only really know how much when we try to not avoid anyone.

Most of the avoidances are due to not having time or wanting to give time. When we are running late we tend to avoid others.

The observation of avoiding people because we are running late tells us a lot. We avoid due to not accepting that we are late and not taking responsibility for our predicament.

We may lack the ability to communicate in a nice way that we can't talk right now. 

When we have done something wrong we avoid people, because we have fear that they will address that. In this case the avoidance is due to a lack of acceptance and responsibility.

To avoid is to not present our face. Which has a lot to do with not being responsible for what we have done. We don't take the step of being responsible because we don't yet want to correct or repair the harm we are responsible for.

 

There is a lot of subconscious to discover when we decide not to avoid people. 

We may not have done anything wrong and we may not be late yet we avoid people. Why? Because there is something that we don't like about them and want to face. Because they have a knack or are the same as us and facing them means to face something uncomfortable about ourselves. 

In general, avoiding people is about avoiding something we find uncomfortable.

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