This post is just a very impartial look at arguments. Some reflections that's all. Are they a bad thing or a good thing? It mostly depends on how we see the results. There are some that really damage a relationship. Then there are some that improve the relationship. There are some that are unnecessary and some that just had to be, and couldn’t be avoided and then there are some that really could have been avoided. Some that really hurt and some that irritate and some that don't hurt. They usually have a good result when the truth comes out, the truth about one’s position, the truth about 'why' or the truth about 'what' or the truth about 'how' etc. There are some that you just have to go through and weather the storm, take the heat so that the peace returns. What to do? Speak, not speak, be balanced - see both sides, or hold firm, say whatever or state the facts only, be honest or be diplomatic, take control or listen or both. Take charge or stay passi...
Make the knowledge received, consciousness in action. The time for the consciousness is NOW. Decide now to act and change will follow. Consciousness shines in change, and consciousness becoming aware of itself is light. Light shining into darkness expands the light. The expanding light establishes presence in the light. The wisdom of being in the light is Gnostic wisdom.