A bit rough to hear right? Something within us hardens and recoils, not wanting us to hear more about it, right? However, with pain later on we realise that it is true, and we say to ourselves: "just why didn't I know that ten years ago, things would be different now".
Always the goal of conscious love is to enhance the essence, to give a boost to the essence so that it can stand on its own two feet and walk confidently more and more knowingly towards its Monad.
The way this is done always varies and is open to what is needed and most effective given our condition or state of consciousness and capacity of understanding.
To pamper a person is to do a disservice to their essence. They become dependent on that treatment. Some egos really take a lot of force in the background, the pampered person stops working on themselves and only lives for the other person, lives to receive the pampering and defines and validates themselves through the pampering.
They forget their essence and their Monad and they become strongly dependent and very upset and demanding when the level of pampering decreases.
We can't control circumstances, situations, people and things and so suffering is inevitable.
To pamper someone is to feed their ego and the other person doesn't really know the harm that it is going to do to them later on. So we do a disservice to them.
This happens a lot with students, if the instructor does not make them work and gives them the solution to everything all the time they become weak in their essence and sooner or later they have difficulty. It is wiser, more conscious to make students to work and help them in their work when needed to get the answer to their problems and difficulties with the ego.
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