There are Times when we have to Move On!
We have to let our mistakes be at times, that is let our
errors be, and just move on, move on, go forward and stop remembering them. Moving
forward but being very careful and vigilant not to fall back into the same
error.
Forgive Ourselves
We may win forgiveness from others which can be a huge
relief, but we need to forgive ourselves as well. That sometimes is something
that we don’t readily give ourselves and sometimes it is something that does
not even come into the picture because we think that we have done nothing
wrong.
To forgive ourselves we have to win the forgiveness from
ourselves. This means to do things that prove to ourselves we are beyond that
mistake. The best thing to do is to work so very hard on that defect, or ego or
way of thinking that made the mistake, and then we end up having balanced our
internal scale. Sometimes it is to just let go of it, and stop remembering it.
There are Times when we have to Correct!
Mind you there are times where we have to focus more on
correcting the mistake and cause of the mistake, and the issue of beating
ourselves up does not come into the picture. When we correct eh mistake we
naturally move forward.
Conclusion
In the cases where we are beating ourselves up over things
and stuck in a very self-pitying rut we just have to work hard, balance our
inner scale by correcting and dissolving the cause of the error and move on
forgetting about the mistake - looking forward towards the heights. Continually
remembering the mistake in a morbid way keeps us stuck and focussed on the same
error.
End (144).
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