When in Pain
When in pain, due to having failed in something, or because
something such as a relationship is not going well, we can be pressed by others
or more over by our own selves to make a decision.
We usually are on the verge of deciding to “throw in the
towel”, on a superficial level regarding some details or on a larger scale,
giving up all together.
In Pain is Not the Best Time for Decisions
When we are in pain this is most certainly not the best time
to make any kind of decision. I think we have all made this mistake or have at
least seen others making this mistake before. Usually when we make a decision
based in pain the end result is not good, by experience things don’t really
work out. We may even have to spend costly amounts of time to reverse the
effects of our bad decision made in pain.
Just Wait a While
If only we can wait a short while for the pain that we are
feeling to pass and then re-consider the decision that we were going to make, most
of the time we find that we don’t have to make any kind of decisions at all.
Conclusion
So if you ever find yourself in pain and impulsed from
inside to make a certain decision, I strongly suggest that you wait until the
pain passes and you are in a better internal state and then consider the
decision that you were wanting to make.
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