Fear is not Love
How do we know that we are doing things out of fear? That is
very easy, because we get angry when our touches etc. are not reciprocated,
acknowledged or appreciated We get very angry when they are rejected. When we
observe this we can be very sure that we are doing it because we want to be
loved and we are trying to fill some insecurity gap or some other gap in us.
The basic belief is that “we should be loved by having our
touches reciprocated”. Is this is really true, maybe we can be loved in a
different way, people after all show love in many different ways and plus a
woman may really not like being touched all the time because it makes her to
feel as if she is a toy or an object of possession, which she certainly is not!
She is a human being, equal to a man!
Women May not Like Being Touched All the Time
Of course they don’t. Which woman does? It spells out to
anybody that something is wrong with the man, who is always touching, either he
is very lustful or very scared but basically it spells out that he wants
something and doing it for a hidden reason or that he is very needy, and women
don’t like needy men, they would rather like a man who is responsible and bale
to take care of them when needed. A needy man does not offer that prospect or possibility.
Sometimes these touchy men are romantic, sensitive and
considerate, controlling and overbearing but are not strong enough to bring the
support and work to hold everything up in the home, in the work and in the many
other aspects involved in a couple’s life.
What? A Man can Never Touch a Lady?
Of course one can and many people very advanced in the work
do very respectfully touch their wives, for sure that can be seen. However it
is not all the time and it is careful and thoughtful and respectful and never
overbearing, and of course there is no fear or lust behind it, doing it for vested
interests. It is to add a touch of love to the person for a moment without the
expectation of it being returned.
End (860).
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