What Happens If I Decide that what a Person Has Done is Not Wrong or Bad?

What Happens If I Decide that what a Person Has Done is Not Wrong or Bad? - (2356)

Answer

We would not feel hurt, disappointed, upset, betrayed, humiliated etc. etc.

Freedom to Decide

The problem is that we don’t have the freedom to decide that. The ego with its karmic loading is too strong to even let us think that we can decide even for the second.

The pain that the ego engulfs us with is so strong that we can’t think of anything else but about how wrong, bad and painful it all is.

But you know we can decide!

Then sometimes we know that but we don’t want to. Well that is another thing. This freedom to decide comes from a lot of work on the ego, but it does open up! That is true!

Concepts

It all comes down to concepts, to what we consider is bad or wrong. We think that what we consider is bad or wrong is absolute but that is not true, what is truer is that we have a relative consideration of what is bad or wrong.

If our concepts of what is bad or wrong are worked down, the pain of the ego ceases!

No matter where those concepts are, at the surface of our mind or deep buried in the subconscious we have to get to them and unravel them. Question them and see how in absolute terms they are true or not.

If you do this you will see that things change within your mind then within you.

End (2356).

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