When it comes to our own mind and other people, the most important thing is to NOT think anything negative.
Any negative thought, any analysis, discovery or conclusion that paints a negative picture of another person is best let go of and forgotten. Abandon negativity towards others for our own benefit. Read on for reasons why.
Comprehension is different to any conclusion arrived at by analysis because it does not leave negativity in our mind.
Comprehension sees the reality of the another person, that they for example have certain "I'" to dissolve etc. As comprehension is light, that light can help the other person, but negativity is not light and it can't help the other person. It's not helpful.
In practice this is absolutely the best thing to do - drop negativity related to others. It is so helpful to every sphere, inside and outside of ourselves.
In arguments and difficult conversations the negativity that we have been harbouring all comes out, often confusing people as to where that came from and often escalating the emotion of the conversation and taking the conversation into completely unnecessary, unrelated, sensitive areas.
The negativity we harbour in our mind about others also harms us the most. We only just hear their name and we are already sick and stressed. We are doing this to ourselves because the other person is not even in our presence, they are far away in body and also probably in mind and emotion.
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