What happens with us after certain 'learning' events is that there is either contraction or expansion.
We usually contract after we told somebody a secret and they told others. We say to ourselves we won't tell them anything anymore. That's contraction. After a while that contraction doesn't feel good and in many ways it goes against the nature of sincere friendship.
So then we realise the answer is in still sharing but with more awareness. This is expansion.
Expansion without awareness is not expansion it is exaggeration which produces imbalance.
It is selfish to overburden someone with so many things to be 'kept quiet'.
The turtle brings its head in when there is danger, but waits for the coast to be clear, then brings its head out again and continues walking.
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