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Weapons to Displace, Weaken and Dissolve Lust - (392)

Important

What is really important is that as soon as we discover something new about lust we put it to work inside of ourselves. As soon as we apply the new discovery the sooner it becomes a weapon in our hands to displace, weaken and dissolve lust. This applies to any defect really.

Sometimes we can have so many keys but because we don’t apply them they remain as just words, and of course we remain as stuck as ever in the mud of the ego.


Take Your Weapons With You

Something that I have found very useful is to take your weapons with you everywhere. Take them shopping, driving, walking, working, meditating, singing, showering, sleeping, talking, thinking, you name it, everywhere and anywhere that you go externally and internally.


Weapons

Runaway Sexual Centre – Out of Order and Balance

My main weapon against lust is now knowing that all the thoughts of lust lead to a runaway sexual centre and that leads to great imbalance and disorder. A runaway centre is against the order of life, the body, it is against harmony, balance, stability and what is logical and orderly. So when a lustful thought arises I remember this understanding, which allows me to comprehend that this lustful thought I am currently observing wants to create in me a runaway sexual centre situation where the sexual centre will end up operating against the benefits of the whole (body, mind and essence) or the other centres put all together.

As I am not interested in creating unbalance and a runaway sexual centre why do I need to look twice, or make efforts to try and grasp or even think about pursuing or even dreaming about “what if” or “What could have happened”.

Connect to Reality

Lustful thoughts are all one-sided and far away from reality. We think that other people are interested in us etc. If we just look at reality we will see that is not quite so, or at least as we think it is, for example they may be interested in us but not in the way we think (this is 99% of the time like this). If we see the reality of the situation we will see that lust in us abates quickly and reduces itself to barely a thought and our thinking and perception turns more normal and realistic.

Does that look, coincidence etc. really mean anything serious? If we connect to reality we can see that so much of our assumptions are real fantasy. People may have things in their subconscious but they are usually very unprepared to do anything about it. As soon as the subconscious is brought to light everything changes.

Why Look

If I have already a partner or spouse and I am committed why bother looking ! We are not going to go there anyway, why bother looking, nothing will come of looking, so why even bother to look? We just make fantasy worse and make our illogical assumptions even stronger and more out of reality. Why dream when we are going to remain as we are in the same position in reality? No point right?


Conclusion

Apply what you have understood about lust or any other ego that you are working on. That is where the difference is made – in the application of the keys.


End (392).

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