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Headstrong versus Heart Strong - (4546)

That is what we need to be - strong of heart.


Headstrong is not all that good for the path and relationships.


Headstrong attacks and is unforgiving and relentless.


Headstrong uses the doctrine, the rules, the principles, the laws etc. to support its attack.


Often the headstrong do not attack because of the rules being broken but because of some other hidden psychological factor...


Heart strong is forgiving and does not attack. But is flexible and possesses comprehension. Where the result of that comprehension is the good of the other. 


The heart says is better that the person keep their natural positive state so that they enjoy their work, their life, themselves, so that they will continue forward and as they continue they will correct their ways. The heart corrects with warmth so that correct course is taken without disheartenment and loss of hope.


The headstrong enforces the logical to the detriment of the emotions of others. The strong of heart combines the emotion and intellect using the to support the heart.


Headstrong creates disheartenment and makes the positive internal state of others to flee and be replaced by confusion and inner conflict.


Headstrong remains defeated while strong of heart gets up and fights again - this time better and harder. 


The best is to be heart strong with ourselves and towards our Inner Being. It is also good to be that with others. There relationships can be allowed to grow and their course intelligently corrected without unnecessary disheartenment.


The headstrong  hurts emotions, while the strong of heart flexibly combines both head and heart.


End (4546).

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