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Elastic in Love - (341)

Introduction

This post is the result of some psychological work inspired by various events and experiences with close friends and family. It seems that every event hides a lesson for our consciousness and by working on the impressions of the event and their effect in us we can extract that lesson for the consciousness. So that next time with that lesson firmly in place in our consciousness we will pass through the same event or similar events with much greater ease.


Need to Give Space

There is that all important lesson and that is to give others space when they are upset or just when we notice that they are getting a bit tired. We think that because they are meant to love us or like they should be able to tolerate us 100% of the time 24/7. That is wrong, people even ourselves don’t work like that because it is to break the ultra-important law of balance. When balance is broken there is pain and suffering or inconvenience at least 100% of the time, no exception.

Allow them to think what it is that they want and have to think (they have to think certain things according to the egos that they have)


Be Realistic – Rejection is Part and Parcel


We have to get rejected from time to time. The best that we can do for ourselves is to accept that it will happen. It has to happen because the people we deal with have the ego and there will be times that they way their egos see us and the things we do will touch their egos and their egos have to reject us. The other people have the elements in our their psychology to reject us. In fact with those elements in their psychology they should reject us. If they don’t it is because they are taking the work on themselves seriously if they are Gnostic.


I am accepting that and it is getting rid of the anger associated with being rejected and it allows tolerance and patience to be born. After being rejected, we if just keep normal and don’t do anything bad they will come around again. If not we just move on, we will find love in others always, always.


Should’s and Should Not’s = Suffering

To have things that others should do and should not do in our mind is hell. Others will always break these things and leave us suffering.

The only should we should have is that they should do what they do because that is their reality. Having should and should not’s is not to be in reality. It is to be in our mind and our mind is not reality.


Strict Patterns of Mind = Suffering

Having strict or rigid patterns about other’s behaviour towards us when we are in a relationship with them whether it be family, friends or a romantic etc. is terrible. We have to be elastic in our mind. To see that love is not rigid  and does not obey these patterns. Love is there for us from others but not always or all the time according to those patterns. We even have to be so elastic to see that others can be very angry with us and yet underneath still love us.

Master Samael says as soon as you try to grasp love the sooner it fly from your hands. Meaning that love can not be put into patterns or rules as soon as you do it is gone.


Love is Elastic

Love is elastic it works like that , sometimes others are very loving towards us then they are not so loving, it is always like that. They get angry with us and are selfish don’t want us around etc. We just have to go with that but trust they love us.


Conclusion

Make elastic your perception and mind about love and go about questioning and dissolving all those patterns. The main key to dissolve them is that they can still love us even when they do not behave according to those patterns that we have. Mind you there are some limits but usually how patterns are small details and things.

End (341).

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