The real control is the control over our own reaction inside of ourselves when things happen in an event.
No doubt to control things means to control people. We can't control any event or outcome of an event without controlling people. We control others physically or psychologically. However, more psychologically.
We often control out of fear. Because we don't want something to happen we control people to not do or say certain things often make happen what we don't want to happen.
Maybe out of ill will we control people. So that someone whom we dislike does not receive a certain benefit.
When we are confident about being able to control the our own inner psychological reactions we don't need to control people and the event. Anything can happen and we know that we will be able to control and transform what erupts inside of ourselves, then we are really free of controlling.
To be free of controlling means dying in all those things that within us have to have things happen in their particular way.
End (4388).
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