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Do Your Hair Toss, Check Your Nails, How Ya Feelin? - (3278)

"If he don't love you anymore
Just walk your fine ass out the door

I do my hair toss
Check my nails
Baby how you feelin'?
Feeling good as hell"

I quite like that song which I have heard a few times on the radio.

Every man has a feminine side and every woman has a masculine side. For example, seeing a man at a park looking after very young children. Walking them in a pram, brushing the dirt off of them while they play and comforting them when they cry and come running to him.

In some men the feminine side it is easy to see, and in some women the masculine side is easy to see. In my boss for example, who is a woman, it is easy to see her masculine side. This lady is decisive, makes tough decisions on the spot and organises a whole room of men telling them to cut it short and get to the point. The wives of some missionaries can have quite a developed masculine side at times. This is not bad. 

Anyway the point of this post that has started off so silly, is that realizing that one has a feminine side for example in a man can have some interesting psychological implications. Very beneficial actually.

Every man has an eternal feminine principle within them, within their essence or consciousness. The lack of familiarity, acceptance and closeness to this creates as a compensation - lust.

One seeks externally what one forgets to look for internally.

Lust wants to have the opposite pole, and it may get it and then nothing, no change in one really occurs. But when one seeks for the opposite pole within and begins to accept that and develop a closeness to and know that this principle well and truly does dwell within, then that has indeed a significant impact on the work of working on lust. The divine feminine principle is the Divine Mother.

I was once told during my missionary course that "lust forgets the Mother and pride forgets the Father". Quite right!

End (3278).

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