Introduction
This post is the result of some psychological work inspired
by various events and experiences with close friends and family. It seems that
every event hides a lesson for our consciousness and by working on the
impressions of the event and their effect in us we can extract that lesson for the
consciousness. So that next time with that lesson firmly in place in our consciousness
we will pass through the same event or similar events with much greater ease.
Need to Give Space
There is that all important lesson and that is to give
others space when they are upset or just when we notice that they are getting a
bit tired. We think that because they are meant to love us or like they should
be able to tolerate us 100% of the time 24/7. That is wrong, people even
ourselves don’t work like that because it is to break the ultra-important law
of balance. When balance is broken there is pain and suffering or inconvenience
at least 100% of the time, no exception.
Allow them to think what it is that they want and have to
think (they have to think certain things according to the egos that they have)
Be Realistic – Rejection is Part and Parcel
We have to get rejected from time to time. The best that we
can do for ourselves is to accept that it will happen. It has to happen because
the people we deal with have the ego and there will be times that they way
their egos see us and the things we do will touch their egos and their egos
have to reject us. The other people have the elements in our their psychology
to reject us. In fact with those elements in their psychology they should
reject us. If they don’t it is because they are taking the work on themselves
seriously if they are Gnostic.
I am accepting that and it is getting rid of the anger
associated with being rejected and it allows tolerance and patience to be born.
After being rejected, we if just keep normal and don’t do anything bad they
will come around again. If not we just move on, we will find love in others
always, always.
Should’s and Should Not’s = Suffering
To have things that others should do and should not do in
our mind is hell. Others will always break these things and leave us suffering.
The only should we should have is that they should do what
they do because that is their reality. Having should and should not’s is not to
be in reality. It is to be in our mind and our mind is not reality.
Strict Patterns of Mind = Suffering
Having strict or rigid patterns about other’s behaviour
towards us when we are in a relationship with them whether it be family, friends
or a romantic etc. is terrible. We have to be elastic in our mind. To see that
love is not rigid and does not obey
these patterns. Love is there for us from others but not always or all the time
according to those patterns. We even have to be so elastic to see that others
can be very angry with us and yet underneath still love us.
Master Samael says as soon as you try to grasp love the
sooner it fly from your hands. Meaning that love can not be put into patterns
or rules as soon as you do it is gone.
Love is Elastic
Love is elastic it works like that , sometimes others are
very loving towards us then they are not so loving, it is always like that.
They get angry with us and are selfish don’t want us around etc. We just have
to go with that but trust they love us.
Conclusion
Make elastic your perception and mind about love and go
about questioning and dissolving all those patterns. The main key to dissolve
them is that they can still love us even when they do not behave according to
those patterns that we have. Mind you there are some limits but usually how
patterns are small details and things.
End (341).
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