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Persistent Difficult Situations - (532)

Introduction

There are certain situations in life that repeat and repeat. These situations may have even started while in childhood.
The reason why these situations repeat and repeat is because we have still not learnt the lesson why these situations exist in our life. There is a certain value that we have to develop from within these situations. When we do not handle values correctly we get a bit of karma and so the lesson to learn from thee difficult situations that repeat and repeat, is to learn how to correctly handle these values.


Examples of Values

Some examples of these values could be patience, tolerance, responsibility and perhaps even to learn how to say no or to speak about things as they are. Each person has one or more of these values in their life to develop.


Way Out

The way to find out which value we have to develop, we first must find the situations that constantly repeat and are painful in our lives. Once we have these situations, we need to search inside the situation and inside ourselves for the faults and the characteristics that if we had them, they would make the situation a breeze. With some sincerity and reflection we can find most or if not all the values that we need to develop.


Develop the Needed Values

It is quite a big step to recognize and accept that we lack certain values. The next big step is to go and develop these values. The real key to developing these values is to dissolve the values that prevent us from manifesting the values we lack.


An Example

For example, if we can not tell people the dangers of their actions or tell them that they are not doing well or tell them something that they won't like we have to work on the fear of not being liked.

When we don't tell someone their wrongdoing, they can not correct their actions, and that may lead them into making costly mistakes. Most certainly they would dislike us more because we did not tell them their wrong doings that could have prevented them from making mistakes.

That fear is a type of a self-love where we feel pain because others don't think highly of us. When others don't like us we feel uneasy or bad about ourselves that is self-love. We should actually feel good about ourselves because we are speaking our truth, and we are helping someone, so we have to feel good about ourselves.


Conclusion

It is all about values we need to find the values that we lack in those difficult situations and develop them, then magically those difficult repetitive situations will disappear.


End (532).

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