Not Thinking about People doesn’t Hurt Them

Not Thinking about People doesn’t Hurt Them - (942)

We are Sentimental

We are quite sentimental people and we often think that if we stop thinking about people we are somehow going against them or harming the relationship that we have with them.

Sentimentalism is always corrected by opening ourselves to see the realities and truths that surround us and people.

In Reality

In reality none of the above is true. It in fact is sometimes better to not think about people.

Why?

Because we may not know it but a lot of our thinking towards people even friends is negative. And after not thinking about people we give our system a break where we feel renewed and more enthusiastic to see them, talk to them and spend time with them.

Thinking about them sends telepathic waves that can affect them but not thinking does them no harm at all.

Conclusion

We may think that the relationship that we have within them on our part within us gets weakened. It may well do, but this warrants some investigation because that means that the relationship that you have with the person is based on thinking and thoughts and concepts and in another words ego.

When we really love people not thinking of them does not harm to that part of the relationship that we have with them that only dwells within us.

But this does not mean that we can’t think of others and remember them fondly and with warmth. Often this can bring comfort to us and if what flows out of us is positive then it won’t harm anyone.

End (942).

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