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The Not so Good Love - (4114)

The most resilient and strongest love is conscious love. The other types of love are those that don't hold up in the difficult circumstances of life.


It makes sense to cultivate conscious love whoever or wherever we are, or in whatever circumstances we are in.


There are a few different kinds of love. The weakest are the sensorial and emotional types of love. It is certainly not worth cultivating them over conscious love.


Sensorial love that comes from making happy the sensorial egos when for example: lust and or fornincation or gluttony are pleased.


Emotional love comes from complementing each other, treating each other well and bouncing nice things off of each other all the time. Becoming dependent on the compliments, smiles, nice tone of voice, hugs, etc. In the end we need these things from the other person to feel happy and in the end this leads to a kind of enslavement.


Of course those things of sensorial and emotional love are all fine and nice, but if we forget conscious love, we are setting ourselves up one day for difficult times.


So what is conscious love? It is defined in so many ways but I'm just going to say that it is to love the work just as much or more than the other and by loving and doing the work you love others.


End (4114).

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