This is a really powerful key that when we work with it, helps us change.
Applying this key, we start to understand that the 'strange' reactions of others, whether it be their annoyances, impatience, fears or habits, all have a reason, and are not so strange and bothersome afterall.
It seems, that us not understanding the reactions and behaviours of others, is really the problem or issue that bothers us so much. However, we think it is the other person that bothers us.
Working with it, we start to feel that we don't need so many explanations from others. We also begin to stop finding them 'silly' or 'wrong'.
Another thing that happens when we work with this key is that we shake our head in disbelief so much less when we see the reactions of others. We develop psychological maturity.
Understanding others is different to justifying others.
From understanding others, we can help them to modify their reactions if they so wish. Justifying others does not give us intelligence to help them.
In short, everything others do, has a reason. Finding that reason and understanding it, makes our consciousness to work and allows us to respond in a conscious way.
Responding in a conscious way can only be done when we are well separated from our own reactions to the reactions of others. Being separated from our reactions to the reactions of others allows us to address the heart of the issue and thus solve the issue.
This key helps us to jump out of the pit of pride and anger.
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