Introduction
Every event has something good and bad in it. This is hard
to believe sometimes, but if we look a little harder we will find both the good
and the bad. An event may be overall good but there will be some inconvenient
or bad aspects to it.
In fact if there is good there has to be bad, and vice versa
they always always come together.
Our Vision is One Sided
The problem with us is that our vision is usually one sided
meaning we only see the bad or good side of an event. This is unbalanced you
would agree?
Seeing both sides is to have a balanced view of life and its
events and that means a more realistic view. When we are close to reality we
suffer less and when we are far from reality we suffer greatly.
Conclusion - Practical Use
If we accustom ourselves to seeing both sides of life we
will be able to neutralise the badness that always made us suffer. So if you
see events as something bad or harsh then ask yourself to find three good
things about the event and vice versa. You will see that things then change for
you!
If we see the opposite to what we normally see, this will
simple action will change our vision and therefore our response and reaction
and overall feeling, (i.e. less suffering) towards the events of life.
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