Angry, Annoyed, Worried, Scared…
It is not an easy time when our loved ones get sick. Whether
that be our parents, brothers, sisters or friends. It is even worse when that
sickness looks like it will or may take them to that which we don’t want to
consider.
We may feel any or more of the above strong emotions.
From our Gnostic work point of view such a time is a chance
for us to produce within ourselves the noblest act of transformation whose result
is a love that changes everything inside of us and blesses, protects, heals,
comforts and a brings comforting peace closer.
Accept
As hard as it is, accepting is the first thing to do to
transform all these emotions into that love from our essence that I mentioned
above.
This can be such a huge task, such a huge thing to do. But to
not do it is to deny ourselves the grace of the love that can flow so beautifully
and powerfully out of heart for them.
Everyone has to die, everyone has to pay some karma as some
point. Do we accept that for ourselves and our loved ones?
If I accept that my loved one has to die, then I can love the
way that they are going to go. The way that they are going to go is a part of
their life. It is what the Law and their Being has worked out for them.
By not accepting it, we are in effect fighting them, and the
negative emotions mentioned above stay with us.
We Don’t Want that they Suffer
Above all we just don’t want that they suffer.
We sadly just can’t do much about that at times. If it is
that they suffer it is because they are paying off debts. Each second of suffering
is a second closer to future beautiful blissful peace for them.
The best that we can do though is to not suffer ourselves. We
are in separate bodies and what is going on in their body is not what is going
on in our body.
It is better to be a beacon of light, love and faith for them
and to do that we must have our essence present in us. Negative emotions cloud out
our essence.
The best thing that we can do for them is to bring out their
essence. With their essence active their Being is the closest that it can be.
Prepare
We may have passed through that situation already or we are
going to pass through it in the future. That is a guarantee and is the wisest
thing always is to prepare.
Love is such a powerful force, loving them through their
process and loving that process is the best gift, it is the balm, it is the
grace and it is lifeline in these times. We have to look to powerful conscious love
in such a time, it the time of the essence, the Being in us and them, the time
of the blessed Masters of the Medicine and the time of the blessed angels of
death that can guide, protect, look after and guide our loved ones after death.
End (2242).
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