When we are desperate and needing help even when it is related to some one we love and not ourselves, we can automatically, unconscionably resort to anger.
Just knowing this automatic response in us is a huge relief. It can actually free us from resorting to anger.
We resort to anger becasue we believe unconsciously that it will precipitate a solution or a remedy or it will get help or even solve. This is becasue anger releases our energy and force and we deep down know that our energy and force moves things and can even heal.
It feels awful to resort to anger because we love the person, yet we are angry (even irrationally at them) and it is a very painful contradiction.
But of course we don't have to resort to anger...
We can use communication, intelligence and prayer instead, and not create this awful contradiction within ourselves that does not help us, the other and the situation.
Just knowing this is soooooo helpful!!!!
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