Vengance is something that exists in the life of the human being. There is the desire for vengance, the drive for it that is felt by human beings...
Vengance has been sought out countless times in history and most likely countless times in our own personal history, in varying degress from the subtle that only we know to the very obvious that all can see...
Because it is felt in us while living life here on Earth it is very good to know about its nature, to the extent of being able to replace it with something else much better in quality after we have comprehended it.
In short, it is really good to know how to work the feelings of vengance.
Venegance appears in us when we were not able to transform what happened to us. I know it can be really hard and almost it is bordering on the 'too much' to say that... But vengance has to have a reason for appearing.
We sometimes believe that some things should not be transformed. Even though it is so hard to contemplate this, those things that we believe we should not be transformed are the things that are going to give us the very best things if we do transform them...
We can hide in vengance and even make our life purpose... For the rest of our life or for a stage of our life...
Anyway it is better to face whatever we feel than seek vengance. To feel vengance is easier. To face the casues of the hurt is something more difficult but something that is more rewarding and fulfilling, and longer lasting.
When we seek vengance we will learn that it's pleasure is short lived and afterwards we are again in debt and feel miserable, the resentment continues, but if we don't seek venagance and transform the hurt, we will learn ever so much more.
We will learn much more on top of the basic lesson, which is that vengance does not transform us. We will learn vengance is lazy, a cop out and does not pay as much as we thought it would.
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