We can't make the sense of pride that we have - of 'being better than' to be too important.
I have found the more important we make it - the more we suffer and the more controlling and even fearful we become. Which is something that really 'rubs people up the wrong way' and is not a way of starting and or keeping any relationship.
We have to dissolve that 'sense of being better than'.
Dissolving it all starts by making it less important and then a bit less and then even more less, until it is so not important to us anymore.
We have to get to that point that it is not that important for us anymore to go around uphold the sense of us being better than that treatment we receive, than that person, that that condition, than that reply, than that mistake that we made, etc. etc.
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