Even though anger looks strong and courageous, it is really a coward. Anger is the psychology of using force to escape our lack of inner strengths to solve difficult situations.
The psychology of using anger has within it the false image of being strong and courageous. Upon a deeper look there is inner cowardice.
When there is a difficult situation we need force to go inside and accept the situation within us. We need force to look inside ourselves to accept our fault if one is being pointed out. We need force to be patient or hold back our instinctive impulses. We need force to engage our consciousness to find a solution. All of this requires force. It is correct that our consciousness sends us force in such situations because we need it. We just need the right psychology to handle that force being sent.
When we use force against someone we are a coward because we escape going through the uncomfortable feelings of holding back our impulses, the uncomfortable feelings of being patient and the uncomfortable feelings of accepting our errors.
Because we lack inner strength to handle our comfortable feelings we resort to anger. This is the very definition of cowardice, which is to escape what is in front of us.
The conclusion is, we need to develop inner strengths to help dissolve anger.
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