Anger arouses the person and then foreplay begins. That is, the two people start to feel annoyed or frustrated and then they begin to stir each other up. There are abrupt challenges, ironic and sarcastic comments, instances of mockery and insult accompanied with demeaning accusations etc. etc.
After the act of foreplay, the initial annoyance or frustration has heightened, and then the angry exchanges begin.
There is no way to stop that exchange of angry ill-will until something breaks...
Common sense breaks, the absurd is present, two people yelling and not listening to each over something trivial. Perhaps something physically breaks, perhaps someone's feelings break, perhaps someone's sense of decency breaks or perhaps someone gets hurt or some words that are said break lines of respect...
This is a lot like the climax of the normal sexual act that results in the loss of energy. In the case of anger, there is always a loss of energy, and there is most often a loss of image, reputation, professionalism, respect, love...
Anger stops once this loss appears... Then begins the recovery after anger, which is often very costly. What is broken in 20 seconds or less takes weeks to repair.
Perhaps people engage in anger to this extent, due to a lack of the sexual act in the common person, or due to a lack of transmutation in the person working gnostically.
Sometimes the ego of lust knowing about this connection to anger and the sexual act, subconsciously uses anger to engage this way to feed itself and send a message...
If we know deeply the "I" of fornication we will become aware of this interaction that anger sets up. We will come to see that allowing anger to go to this limit is the same as losing the sexual energy. It is certainly not Transmutation...
The key is to cut the foreplay and to not feed that. Bring something different straight away to not feed the foreplay.
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