We all have to some degree that tendency to criticise and critique. The two are different. Critique has good intentions and wishes to provide feedback to improve the efficiency and quality of another person's efforts. There may be some analysis involved and it is done for the betterment of the other person.
Excessive critique can hide some annoyance, attachment, pride or envy...
Criticism on the other hand is often done out of some annoyance, anger or envy.
If we want to get ourselves out of this tendency to criticise, this one key is very useful. It is to always be patient and focus on the result. To do this means to take a big picture or overall view.
Criticism and excessive critique, is so often about the way something is done. If we go to the big picture view of results, we will see that the result is the same - our way or another way, produce the same result.
So often, it is not really correct to upset another person for a few minutes when the result is the same as what we can do.
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