Feelings of Not Belonging - (587)

Introduction

Sometimes we can feel as if we do not belong in a group or in a relationship etc. etc.

These feelings have an origin of course. These feelings could come from the impressions of rejection or disinterest from others or from some mental processes induced or flavoured by certain “I’s” that we have within us when we see that we are not so integrated.

Why

A big reason why we may feel that we don’t belong is personality. Especially if our personality is very different to others. Such as when personalities originating from different countries come together.

Solution

If we see ourselves not as a person or a personality but as an essence everything changes. We see ourselves as the universal material of life and others are just the same – an essence and then seeing things this things get better for us, those feelings of not belonging can slowly dissipate and we then relate to others very differently. We relate essence to essence which is devoid of that upset background of feeling alone, disappointed and slightly rejected.

Conclusion

The best way to relate is essence to essence. This type of relations transcends culture, race, age and personality.

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