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Dark Psychology - Can't Justify Somethings - (5934)

Dark psychology as used popularly can be understood as the psychology of the subconscious.

Justifications exemplify the psychology of the subconscious really well.

The general modus operandi of the subconscious is the iceberg model. Where an acceptable visible layer is present while underneath there is the unacceptable reality. The visible layer looks fair and nice while the invisible is dark and ugly. 

The subconscious psychology works to present and while keeping the invisible hidden and undetected. The subconscious psychology uses many tools such as lies, excuses, justifications and anger to prevent the larger and invisible side from being seen.

The invisible side holds the real reasons for everything and it is larger in size and stronger than the visible surface.

There are some things that are difficult to justify. The default of the ego and subconscious is to try. When the justification is not accepted or is forcibly proven to be based on lies it is common that we get angry.

This is because we don't want to admit our errors and we don't want to change. Changing often means releasing a very strong will to do, have or be something.

It's difficult to see our errors, we feel angry with ourselves for having the error and we feel angry at others for shedding light on the errors.

We then become very bitter, negative and resentful. In essence, the "I's" of pride and self-love were very hurt. The aspect of pride that was hurt was the sense of being able to feel well with ourselves and the aspect of self-love that was hurt was the sense that we should have been treated more fairly or more considerately than we were.

The solution is to see the light presented and accept what we see and what has been exposed, and instead of feeling hurt confused that we are meant to be superior and above the error - feel grateful because we can now see more of our own truth and now we have the gift to truly change. Thanks to that new change that problem will never come up again.

Another transformative thing to do is to look forward to the new change that this discovery will bring. This is the psychology of the visible and of the light. Very different to the psychology of the dark and subconscious.

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