Often the way to undo anger in the moment is to go against what anger is protecting.
Among a few other titles, anger champions the title of protecting the 'myself' and any other "I" that is around.
No doubt anger protects laziness. The laziness to explain something to someone can cause anger to appear. The laziness to have to do a task when asked to can cause anger to grizzle.
The laziness to expend intellectual energy to explain to a person about how to do something on an ipad, for example can make a person unreasonably impatient which then leads to annoyance and anger.
When a person genuinely does not know how to do something being lazy is not the right answer. The right answer is explaining or showing them how to do it. When due to laziness we don't want to accept that they don't know how to do something we always end up getting angry.
So say if we accepted that they do not know how to do something, it becomes ridiculous before our own consciousness to not show them how to do that something. Then we would help them and it would be difficult to find anger in us.
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