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Don’t Give Your Heart to Anyone! Give its Fruit Instead! – (1682)

We Tend to Give Our Heart

It first of all seems wrong – the above advice doesn’t it? It seems mean, a little selfish and it is like if we do, do that we are holding back on something.

However, all of our experience will tell us a different story I feel.


When You Have Given Your Heart What Happened?

It mostly down the track got broken, or stepped on or taken away, lost etc. or given back to you right? But not always though. Even if we give our heart to someone, they will die one day and they have to give it back or let it go.

If we give our heart to someone they end up having two hearts and they will have to let go of ours one day. We can even give others our mind, our will and that is just as bad.



All of these things are ours, others have exactly what we have, so why give them another set. Especially when they are not really ours anyway, either the ego controls them or they are for our Real Inner Being to have and command.

It is not their fault either that we gave them our heart, our mind – our decisions and our will – our obedience. We probably even complained out loud or even internally when they seemed not to appreciate it or even realised it. When we tell me people that I gave you my heart, my mind, my loyalty (will and obedience) they may even say: “Why did you do that? You didn’t need to!”


Give its Fruits As Freely as You Like

However, here is the balance point: give freely and abundantly the fruits of your mind, will and heart. Give your light but not the source of your light. Give your love but not the source of your love. Because others have their source of light and love as well. We need to give them the help to find their sources and release the light and love. This does not involve us having to give our mind, will and heart.

But if you still want to give your mind, your will and your heart then give it to your inner Real Being and the work to get there! That my friends and dear readers is the right place!!!

End (1682).

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