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People Always do the Right Thing - No More Expectations and Suffering - (2817)

Introduction

This is something that m.m.m. has been saying for a while. But I never really deeply understood it. That is I heard it and it had a confusing effect on me. But recently it has had like a "something snapping" in my mind effect on me which has been clarifying and liberating at the same time. So this post is about that.

Reality Is...

People act according to their karmic programming and their egoic structure and sometimes they act with the work and with their essence. That is why and how they think, feel and act. This includes us.

That is what the reality is.

This is the right thing for them to do. They should not do otherwise. How can they? Their karmic programming has them do this and that in this and that way. The egos they have have been conditioned for many hundreds of years to think, feel and act in the same way...

For goodness sake they should not be different. But the sleeping part of ourselves feels that they should be different, that they should be warm, loving and considerate...


Meow!

The problem is that we have so many expectations. Which when we look at them are unrealistic. As unrealistic as expecting a cat to bark when all the time it is going to look at you and go "meow"!

We think people should behave Gnostically, lovingly, considerately etc. towards us and others. All these expectations are only concepts, they are not reality.

People are going to act with their karmic programming and their egos and sometimes with the work. And that may not or it may coincide with what we think is Gnostic. But besides that, that is what is right for them. They are fulfilling the nature and law within themselves.

But if they decide to change they jump to fulfill a higher law in them and working on themselves is right for them.

Always always - not seeing reality makes us to suffer and feel deeply disappointed.

When we see people are always right, so many expectations die and see come to accept and love the reality (or at least be much more at peace) and we deal with things form others rather easily and smoothly without too much difficulty and inner protests.

End (2817).

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