When you Catch Yourself Being Controlling there Hides a Weakness

When you Catch Yourself Being Controlling there Hides a Weakness - (2138)

A General Rule

As a general rule of thumb, whenever we wish to control something, it is to cover or to avoid some error or weakness being exposed, to either others or to ourselves.

Obviously we are sacred of this weakness being exposed because we have not accepted that part of our ourselves yet.

Jealousy and Control

A jealous lady controls the unfolding of an event, perhaps to not give her man a chance to talk to lady ‘abc’ because she fears his liking for her will increase, or because she just can not deal with the powerfully negative emotions that her own jealousy evokes in her.

One Case Better than the Other

One of the above cases is better than the other! Which one is it? The one where the jealous lady controls an event so that he does not grow fonder of lady ‘abc’ is healthier. The other case where the jealous lady controls the event because she can not deal with her jealousy is graver! This can equally as well be a man. Easily just as well.

For one, such a person who controls an event to avoid their egos flaring up because they can not deal with the pain have not accepted that they have this ego of jealousy yet and they have not accepted the possibility of it being able to be eliminated and they have not accepted as yet within themselves the image of a life free of that ego. In effect they are still hiding from themselves and of course reality - he likes her what can you do about it? Rip open his heart or mind and take lady ‘abc’ out of there? Of course prevent him from not going too far for the good of everyone but to control the event is just suffering for you and if his love for you does not diminish is that worth it? When are you going to dissolve jealousy like this? Never!

Fear and Others

Behind many instances where we exert control is fear. It is the major one actually. And fear always reveals to us a weakness.

There can be greed, ambition and pride as well. Of course behind each of those three mentioned egos are profound lacks or in other words incompleteness and weakness. Any structure that is incomplete unfinished and lacking is weaker and unbalanced.

End (2138).

Comments

Kundry from Parsifal Unveiled - (3948)

The character Kundry is very unusual, and has a mysterious role in Wagner's opera: Parsifal. As master Samael explains, Kundry represents the archetype of the feminine. That mysterious yet extraordinarily powerful force that can raise a man to the heights of realisation or sink him into the abyss of failure. Kundry in the opera takes on a few different opposing roles, one where she is the temptress that seduced the king of the Holy Grail: King Amfortas giving Klingsor the opportunity to steal the Lance of Longinus and wound his side. She then helps the wounded king searching for balms to heal the wound in his side, then she is again the temptress that tries to seduce Parsifal the young knight who tries to redeem the lost lance. When Parsifal is victorious destroying the castle of Klingsor Kundry changes roles to become a servant of the holy grail and the knights of the order of the holy grail. These are all aspects of the powerful feminine force that is varied and has many differe...

What is the Kundabuffer or Kundartiguador? - (405)

Introduction Gurdjieff and Master Samael spoke much about the Kundabuffer organ and a lot of what Master Samael said is pretty clear. This post is just about going over some of what he said. In the Quinto Evangelio, Master Samael also revealed many more details which do not appear in his books. Note, the Qunito Evangelio is a two tome compilation of transcriptions of many recordings of informal talks that Master Samael had with his students. English and Spanish Terms There are these two terms Kundartiguador and Kundabuffer which refer to the same thing. Kundartiguador is Spanish and Kundabuffer is English. I believe it was Gurdjieff who first introduced these terms in his book “Beelzebub’s Tales to his Grandson”. I believe “Beelzebub’s Tales to his Grandson” was not originally written in ether Spanish or English. So these terms Kundartiguador and Kundabuffer are translations where the word “Kunda” could not be translated and the ending "buffer" could b...

When We Speak Bad About Ourselves - Because of Self-Compassion - (2963)

Even Just Thinking Negative When we just even think, let alone speak about ourselves in a negative way, thinking things like: how we are really this and that bad and that is not at all what others see, that we are in capable, worth little, know nothing, can't do this and that, fail at this and that, a liar, a dreamer the list goes on... We can be 100% sure that self-compassion is behind this because pride by itself would never allow this. In a case like this self-compassion taps into what pride hides from itself and others and exposes it. Feeling that it is doing job at ruining ourselves. Why It Does What It Does? Self-compassion does this sort of thing to avoid reprimand and to extract compassion from others. Self-compassion is about getting compassion for ourselves through others. It is set-up in relativity, using others as a reference point. Really the best thing that you can do for a person who is pitted against this ego is to ignore them, so that they can fa...

Gnostic Esoteric Study & Work Aids

Search This Blog