Guarantee
If one works
on jealousy one can be certain (guaranteed) of the following:
One
Significant diminishing and vanishing of the empty feelings
of loss, and the panic or anxiety or perhaps even dread or sadness that result
from that empty feeling.
Two
Significant diminishing and vanishing of the intense anger and
pride of having our unspoken rules or expectations broken.
Three
Significant
diminishing and vanishing of the anger about the lack of control over the person.
Four
Significant diminishing and vanishing of the feeling of
being insulted/offended by the other person having taken the gaul to pass over
our rules and expectations and ‘sacred love’.
Five
Significant diminishing and vanishing of ill-will towards
the other person and the ‘other other person’.
Six
Feelings that the other person does not really love us and loves
the other person more or more naturally or spontaneously.
Seven
Feelings that we are not good enough disappear. Feelings that
we are too old, slow, boring, unspontaneous, not fun, etc. etc. start to go.
Eight
Appearance of a new aspect and quality of trust in relation
to one’s inner Divinity and the relationships that one has in this life.
Nine
Appearance of a renewed love for the other person. Which is characterised
by more trust in the other and more respect.
Ten
Increased feelings of dignity and confidence, as one can now
behave with a more upright conduct and not feel ‘bad’ about oneself.
Eleven
Closer to your essence. More interior light. More interior
freedom. More control. More happiness. More at peace.
Contrast - Decision
After reading each of these points, do you want to work on
jealousy? Working on jealousy as any other ego, is really a conscious decision,
that is best made through contrast. Who after contrasting would not want to work on jealousy? I think no one, especially if the person has or suffers acutely from jealousy.
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I so appreciate the postings on jealousy. They helped me with a situation. Now I recognize and live the positive points you listed.
ReplyDeleteWonderful, I am really glad about that and appreciative of your feedback. Thanks also very much!
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