Skip to main content

Reference Point in Sexology - (1217)

Everything Relates

Good relationships between ourselves and something else are what bring us good results.
So then, in relation to sexuality, it is the same, we should relate well to our own sexual energy and to the value of sexuality. These are the two fundamental factors to do with that question or conundrum of sex.

Sexual Energy

Sexual energy is our raw sexual energy that accumulates and can be transmuted. This energy is behind many natural impulses and is the key ingredient of sexuality. It takes us to examine sexuality.


Sexuality

Sexuality on the simplest level is our level of understanding in regards to our sexual conduct with another human being of the opposite sex.


The Problem of the Egos of Sexuality

Sexuality has its certain principles or laws. For example, it is our cosmic duty to transmute our sexual energy!

The psychological processes of these egos of sexuality (lust etc.) can certainly interfere with the recognition or awareness of the rules and laws governing sexuality.

Lust basically in relation to the sexual energy attempts to direct it. Lust does the opposite of transmutation, it channels the sexual energy out and this of course will reflect clearly in one's sexuality.

The egos of sexuality actually colour most of our sexual behaviour, and condition the way we relate to our sexual energy. These egos of sexuality are psychological and from this stage they try to manage sexual energy and our sexuality.

The key for defeating lust lies in the channelling of the sexual energy into the consciousness and the Being and using sexuality for the enhancement of the inner Being.

The value of chastity is transmutation. Chastity as you may hear about in Gnosis is transmutation. It is not abstinence but rather the wise use of the sexual energy and sexuality whose core and fundamental ingredient is transmutation.


Reference Point

Reference points are all so important in life and in our psychology. If we don’t have a reference point when reading a map or while orienteering etc. we are lost and we remain lost. The same thing with our psychology if we don’t give ourselves a reference we get lost.

The problem is that lust has a reference point, and so our job is to change and anchor that reference point to do with the sexual energy and sexuality in our inner Being. Normally the reference point is on outside issues, others, forms, concepts, ideas, fashions etc. Basically though, we have to relate directly to our sexual energy and not relate to it through others, which is what having a reference point outside of ourselves does to us.

We have to depend on ourselves, and relate to our sexual energy and sexuality through our Being. We are going back to the Being alone, we are going to die alone and so we can't see or focus our relationship to our sexual energy and sexuality through others or anything outside of ourselves.

End (1217).

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

What is the Kundabuffer or Kundartiguador? - (405)

Introduction Gurdjieff and Master Samael spoke much about the Kundabuffer organ and a lot of what Master Samael said is pretty clear. This post is just about going over some of what he said. In the Quinto Evangelio, Master Samael also revealed many more details which do not appear in his books. Note, the Qunito Evangelio is a two tome compilation of transcriptions of many recordings of informal talks that Master Samael had with his students. English and Spanish Terms There are these two terms Kundartiguador and Kundabuffer which refer to the same thing. Kundartiguador is Spanish and Kundabuffer is English. I believe it was Gurdjieff who first introduced these terms in his book “Beelzebub’s Tales to his Grandson”. I believe “Beelzebub’s Tales to his Grandson” was not originally written in ether Spanish or English. So these terms Kundartiguador and Kundabuffer are translations where the word “Kunda” could not be translated and the ending "buffer" could b...
11 comments
Read more

When We Speak Bad About Ourselves - Because of Self-Compassion - (2963)

Even Just Thinking Negative When we just even think, let alone speak about ourselves in a negative way, thinking things like: how we are really this and that bad and that is not at all what others see, that we are in capable, worth little, know nothing, can't do this and that, fail at this and that, a liar, a dreamer the list goes on... We can be 100% sure that self-compassion is behind this because pride by itself would never allow this.  In a case like this self-compassion taps into what pride hides from itself and others and exposes it. Feeling that it is doing job at ruining ourselves. Why It Does What It Does? Self-compassion does this sort of thing to avoid reprimand and to extract compassion from others. Self-compassion is about getting compassion for ourselves through others. It is set-up in relativity, using others as a reference point. Really the best thing that you can do for a person who is pitted against this ego is to ignore them, so that they can fa...
Post a Comment
Read more

The Divine Mother is there when we Comprehend - (5780)

A very wonderful instructor gave a talk on Koradi Radio a few days ago and he said something that really impacted. He said that when we comprehend something, our Divine Mother is present right in that moment of comprehension. Especially if it is do with an "I" we are working on. He went on to say that he knows that She is there when we comprehend something. This for me was marvellous, because I have felt the same, though I was never fully sure. This is great news when we want to build a connection to our Divine Mother and doubt when is present. We can know that She is present when we are trying to comprehend. I feel that She really wants us to comprehend the "I" and further more She helps us to comprehend. We can truly ask for Her help to comprehend something and the help will come in such a natural way that we will tend to overlook it.   She is better than Google...  End (5780).
Post a Comment
Read more