If there is ever something that we want for ourselves, whether that be recognition, love, appreciation, care, understanding, mentorship, accpetance, encouragement, company etc. then to get that we need to give it to ourselves first and then give it to others.
This is not the answer that we want to hear but it unfortunately it is the only that makes sense and works.
To somehow pressure it or force it out of others is just too hard, unrelaible and turns people away from us.
The way to get those things, not judging if they are appropiate or not, is to begin to give those exact things to ourselves then to others.
As we start to do that we are cultivating that power within us and soon we will be able to give it more to others in purer ways which will then by the law of reciprocity come to us by itself from others.
We can't give to others what we don't have.
In the end, what happens is that we don't really want those things from others, we actually want to be able to have those values from ourselves. Then what has the most meaning to us is give those things to others. To want those things for ourselves from others loses meaning totally.
End (5879).
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