Friday, 13 July 2018

Don’t Believe the Change in Perception After the Person Insults You – The Person is the Same – (2483)

The Usual Mediocre Thing

Usually when we are criticized or insulted and we feel offended etc. etc. Our perception of the person who insulted us changes.

We see them totally different, we begin to become scared of them or we start to think that they are very harsh, rigid, totally unforgiving, ill natured and plus all of that they don’t like us anymore.

But the truth is that they are the same as they were before they insulted us.

What is inside them has not changed at all. Just one of their egos that was always there said something which it hadn’t said before. They most likely even think the same about us. They may even feel sorry for having said that. The thing is that they are no different within themselves. They may behave differently with us but they are no different.


Conclusion

What I want to say is that when we see the person differently and feel like a certain fear and rejection that is a pure illusion on our behalf. We can choose actually not to believe that, and when we don’t believe or fall for that illusion a whole different path we havn’t walked before opens up in our life. No more of that stupid avoidance and awkwardness and life continues on with that person in a natural way, without that silly falling out of not speaking or not writing etc.etc.

End (2483).

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