Monday, 23 July 2018

The ‘Bad Books’ Test – (2513)

Most of Us Know This 

There is a test or perhaps a situation of being in the bad books. Probably we have been there before at one point or another for some time. It can be a tough one.

It is basically a test or situation to test or strengthen our endurance and patience in dealing with the unpleasant emotions that our own psychology generates.

Some people have no problem at all moving through such a situation or test. All because their psychology does not generate uncomfortable emotions.


Upset or Anxious and Why

When we do have trouble it is because of our pride. The image we have of ourselves is based on how we think others perceive us.

If the way we see ourselves is through our own evaluation then we will be fine in such situations.

Sometimes in these situations we feel very nervous and scared. This is because we were depending on the love from others that we mainly use within ourselves for some kind of protection.

So then we feel that our protection is gone and that other are going to harm us and we feel very anxious and like we are going to be attacked, criticised, belittled etc. etc. The whole time we are in such a situation.

Can we stand it? If we are in it, it is because we can!

End (2513).

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