Jealousy Rule Book – (2499)

Introduction

I think that this part of the ego of jealousy is probably the worst part. Removing this part, which I call the rule book makes a big difference when it comes to weakening the strength and structure of this ego.

The “I’s” of jealousy often refer to the rule book and manifest because a rule has been written in the rule book. If there is no rule to go by there is no protest.

The rule book constitutes the rigidity and toughness of jealousy. It also makes up the justice part of jealousy, which leads us to come to the wrong conclusion that it is all so unfair...

The strange thing is that the one who is receiving the wrath of jealousy finds it unfair as well, "why should I get hammered for just smiling and saying hi, that is not a crime". Also it is not fair on our own inner Being to forget our Being in place of the green eyed monster.

Rule Book

Examples

• He/she should not be talking to him/her.
• He/she should not buy him/her a gift.
• He/she should not be even mentioning him/her.
• He or she should not like him/her.
• He or she should not be smiling at him/her.
• He or she should not be laughing with him/her.
• He or she should not even find him/her interesting.
• He or she should be very serious and only say a few words to him/her.
• He or she should be all the time with me.
• He or she should sit next to me.

Do you get that quote? We are not really in love with the real person. We are mostly in love with the person in our
 head which is of course imaginary! Get it? Jealousy deals with the person in our head, not the real person!

Erase Rule by Rule

The rules in the jealousy rule book have to be worked on one by one. Questioning their validity sincerely and ruthlessly is a very good method to shake them loose in our mind.

The dissolution of these rules begins by first loosening them and then loosening them progressively and then causing them to be dropped as they are understood as redundant, unfair and flawed. Once they are dropped they can be dissolved.

They are simply mental constructs. Not real principles of the cosmos.

End (2499).