When we are accused of something and it just does not hurt we don't or we just do not feel anything it is becasue we do not have that thing in our self-image.
When we feel hurt and we protest and try to justify that we are not that which we are accused of, we for sure have that thing in our self-image.
We feel hurt becasue we believe that we have that value or virtue or that we need to be seen by people to have that value.
When we are with people that to be with them we must be virtuous etc. and we are accused of not having that virtue or value we suffer like mad and need to repair our image before those people.
But when we are with people who do not care about what virtue or value we have we don't need to repair to defend or pretend or anything.
Unfortunately this is really the only way we can know what we have in our self-image. Being accused of things, whether it be false or true.
Unfortunately this is really the only way we can know what we have in our self-image. Being accused of things, whether it be false or true.
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