A big thing in the work on ourselves is knowing how to deal with the 'unfair' feeling. Here are some notes.
There are absolute and relative unfair. It's crucial to know the difference. Knowing this can save us so much suffering.
The absolute unfair does not hurt. We can do something physically and humanly about it and if it is truly unfair it will be rectified or we understand that clearly it is a karmic debt that we have to pay.
The relative unfair is what causes us all the grief.
Because the relative unfair only seems unfair to us and not the other person or people.
The relative unfair is also unfair relative to some belief, concept or attitude that we have.
To clear our suffering we have to find what in us it is unfair in relation to.
Often the things people say are unfair to the idea we have of ourselves or the perception we have of our intentions.
As soon as we know what it is unfair in relation to, we are almost free. Often when find the unfair reference point we will see that it is false or not true.
Basically what is perceived as unfair hurts everyone and we all can't just let go what is unfair so easily. So we will explode at some point if we haven't addressed all these feeling of 'unfair'.
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