When the person (ABC) who is the central point of our jealousy begins to show some dislike towards the one we are jealous of (i.e. the third person - DEF), jealousy feels relieved and creates a false base in that 'dislike'.
Then later when the third person appears again and the person who is the central axis of our jealousy is friendly towards this third person (DEF), jealousy doubles in force and the feelings of indigence rise terribly and almost uncontrollably.
Jealousy does not transform that new impression well. However, it made a mistake to make those impressions of ABC disliking DEF a base belief. We feel betrayed but that is pure ignorance, we feel betrayed because jealousy is still alive.
Such an incident shows us more about jealousy. It does not allow the freedom of the other to like another or find another easy to get along with.
It does not understand the freedom of love, the freedom (hard to tie down the heart) and expansion of the heart that extends genuinely to others without any implication of sexual attraction and being abandoned (jealous person being abandoned).
The jealous person is the one that typically only loves a few people and has only a few friends and they are the very close type of relationships. So such a person does not have much experience or knowledge of know how things work outside of those small confines. As they have not ventured much outside of these confines it is difficult to understand and so they turn to jealousy to control things in the way they are use to.
End (3440).
Comments
Post a Comment