Part of Loving is Forgiving - (3449)

A part of love is to forgive.

To forgive is to heal. It in many ways is a balm for the heart.

To forgive allows love again to flow in you.

To forgive is a decision of no future resentment, revenge, recrimination etc. Which may be hard to contemplate but I'd go for that as those things are bitter and hurt ourselves a lot.

It is also to give up the lament of "if only things were different" and "if only that didn't happen".

To forgive does not mean justice is annulled. 

Justice is in the Being of all of us, the Law is within the Being of us all. The Being respects the Law.

To forgive does not mean to go blind to justice. It means to hand justice over to those Divinities that manage justice and for us to do our part, healing our heart and mind by trusting in justice and forgiving.

When we forgive we can move forward.

To forgive it is useful to see the other person as an essence, that has egos like us no big deal. Focus on the person as essence.

Forgiveness helps but does not take away all the pain. We have to keep working - comprehending and transforming the pain from the subconscious that the memories bring. Which is doable if we really try hard working on self-love.

There is forgiveness everywhere. So many things in society are forgiven - it would not be practical otherwise. 

In any relationship there are always heaps of apologies and forgiveness.

To be good at relationships we have to know how to forgive. Love forgives.

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