Jealousy does so many things right? It has many modes of functioning right?
One thing it does well, so well actually, that it gives us some grief, is projecting the following thought into the future: "they will displace me, they will become more loved and closer to him/her than I am". etc.
Ok that's the thought and there's the awful feeling in the emotional centre and then the anger, ill-will, spite etc. later on.
So what do we need to fly out of these very inferior emotions. Well the quality of trust makes our wings that fly us out of that painful jail.
When there is the future there is fear. Trust is the antidote to fear. Remember that, it will save your life one day.
Trust in the person, that they value the relationship and won't let you be displaced. Trust in the other party that they will respect your relationship. Trust in your essence and Being that whatever happens good or bad it is for you to learn more and overcome anything yet to overcome and free more essence. Providing we don’t do anything really stupid that crosses the many lines of honesty.
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