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Stop Fantasy and Deal a Mortal Blow to Lust – (1479)

Why do we Go Red, Feel Awkward or Comb our Hands through Our Hair?

All Because of Fantasy!

When we look at a person without any mental process going on in our mind we are seeing what is. That is neutral that is ok. We are seeing the physical body of a Monad in creation. We may perceive certain things about that person and that is ok. As soon as the mind begins to think about what has been perceived or the mind simply begins to think then there arises the trouble.

If we observe what arises in our mind very carefully we will see that what appears is fantasy, or more fantasy than anything else. It is precisely fantasy that makes us to then feel awkward and blush. Because we are subconsciously embarrassed about having projected a fantasy, even if subconsciously.


No Thought – No Awkwardness!

How can we feel awkward and blush and get nervous when we are seeing a reality, a human being, like us, no more than that a human being? Impossible! We feel awkward and embarrassed because a silly or embarrassing thought entered our mind.

It may not have even been an elaborate or involved fantasy, it may even be a decent kind of a fantasy, but none the less it is something that is not real and is out of context with the physical event and we feel ashamed, embarrassed or silly about that. IT just goes to show us that our real nature is made of truth or what is real.

No person is a problem, what is the problem is our fantasy. Stop the fantasy and you will see how everything changes.

End (1479).

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